Migraine sufferers across the country explain how their partner helps them deal with migraines.
When you’re experiencing migraine symptoms letting a partner know how they can help may seem impossible. That’s why it can be a good idea for you and your spouse or partner to come up with a plan of attack before the migraine hits. After all, your partner hates seeing you in pain, and even though he or she can’t take the migraine away, there’s a good chance they can do something to help you feel a little more comfortable, which might also help them feel more helpful. Here, migraine sufferers explain how their partner pitches in.
“My husband hurries to clean the toilet because he knows I’ll be throwing up for hours. That is love.” Nicole Zeman, Portland, OR
“My boyfriend knows when I crawl into bed to go silent. He shuts off the lights, takes the dogs out of the room, and watches TV at a low volume.” Kristin Ratigan, Anchorage, AK
“My husband immediately assumes all household duties as soon as I know a migraine is coming. One time, he even hosted an entire barbeque for my family while I lay upstairs in a coma-like state. We’d had the party planned for weeks, and I didn’t want to cancel at the last minute. I could hear laughter coming from the backyard but was far too weak and in too much pain to join in, but it meant so much to me that he took over the festivities for me.” Judy Cantu, Van Nuys, CA
